Bless from trials.
In my life,I'm always dealing with difficult people.
From my schooltime,college and until now.
It become worst when at the time we put ourself in bad situation.
Some hard to handle,
Take times and maybe we will stay away to deal with them.
But,how about if the person is in our circle surrounding ?
Remember,
We can't change the person.
Even us,do you like people change you to be kind of other person?
For sure,not.
Yes,
Our instinct we want the person be more calm,humble and positive,talk nicely and so on.
But things getting worst always.
In fact,
The more you try to change them,
The more it getting worst.
Stop it.
Try to understand them.
You might say,
"Why I'm the one have to understand ?"
They started first,they pricked our heart and now we have to understand them.
Sigh..
We come from different background of life,
Even same culture and realigion,
But it doesn't matter they are same with you,
Experience from the past will more influence who you are in becoming future.
The past build the kind of person who you are in present.
Guys,
Sometimes it's too mainstream to be different kind of mind.
Our culture always bombarded with condemning,judging ,backbiting and more negative thoughts.
Why not we break the rules?
Master the skills how to communicate in the good way.
Build a positive thought about the person that you fear to deal with.
Even thousand people will condemn.
At the end of the day,
You will thanks to yourself.
Imperfection is beauty.
It's ok people may not like you,
But dont give up to be the best person you are .
Life is to give the best in your life 💁.
💕💕💕💕.
"Sesungguhnya telah ada dalam diri Rasulullah itu suri teladan yang baik bagimu (yaitu) bagi orang yang mengharap (rahmat) Allah dan (kedatangan) hari kiamat dan dia banyak menyebut Allah."
(al-Ahzab [33]: 21)
From my schooltime,college and until now.
It become worst when at the time we put ourself in bad situation.
Some hard to handle,
Take times and maybe we will stay away to deal with them.
But,how about if the person is in our circle surrounding ?
Remember,
We can't change the person.
Even us,do you like people change you to be kind of other person?
For sure,not.
Yes,
Our instinct we want the person be more calm,humble and positive,talk nicely and so on.
But things getting worst always.
In fact,
The more you try to change them,
The more it getting worst.
Stop it.
Try to understand them.
You might say,
"Why I'm the one have to understand ?"
They started first,they pricked our heart and now we have to understand them.
Sigh..
We come from different background of life,
Even same culture and realigion,
But it doesn't matter they are same with you,
Experience from the past will more influence who you are in becoming future.
The past build the kind of person who you are in present.
Guys,
Sometimes it's too mainstream to be different kind of mind.
Our culture always bombarded with condemning,judging ,backbiting and more negative thoughts.
Why not we break the rules?
Master the skills how to communicate in the good way.
Build a positive thought about the person that you fear to deal with.
Even thousand people will condemn.
At the end of the day,
You will thanks to yourself.
Imperfection is beauty.
It's ok people may not like you,
But dont give up to be the best person you are .
Life is to give the best in your life 💁.
💕💕💕💕.
"Sesungguhnya telah ada dalam diri Rasulullah itu suri teladan yang baik bagimu (yaitu) bagi orang yang mengharap (rahmat) Allah dan (kedatangan) hari kiamat dan dia banyak menyebut Allah."
(al-Ahzab [33]: 21)
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